Born and raised on the tiny island of Cebu, Kyle Ballar moved to Manila at 21 and quickly traded island life for city adventures. A ballroom dancer with seven gold and three bronze medals, a future medical student, a Pokémon obsessive and unapologetic chocolate addict, he also happens to have a very adventurous sex life. From the male gaze to public sex, Kyle talks openly about desire, vulnerability, and discovering just how much of himself he’s willing to explore.
Hi, Kyle! Tell us a little about yourself: where were you born and raised, where do you mostly live, and what do you do?
Well, I was born and raised on this tiny little island in the middle of the Philippines — Cebu. When I turned 21, I packed my bags and moved to Manila for college, so I guess you could say I went from island boy to city boi. Now that I’ve graduated, I’ve decided to stay in Manila and live on my own in my little condo, surrounded by books, Pokémon toys, and an almost embarrassing amount of chocolate and sweets. I’m currently taking a gap year before enrolling in med school to become a doctor, so for now, I’m enjoying my freedom, exploring life, and taking my sweet time before adulthood gets too serious.
What’s an interesting fact about yourself that you’d like to share with NUBRO readers?
Hmm, where do I even begin? I speak three languages — Bisaya, Filipino, and English — and I can also manage a little grade-school French, although I wouldn’t exactly call myself Paris-ready. I’m a huge bookworm and actually prefer reading historical fiction, especially stories centered around strong feminist perspectives. I’m also obsessed with Pokémon and love dancing; during college, I competed in professional Ballroom dancing and won seven gold and three bronze medals. And despite everything else, I don’t drink or smoke — I just have a very serious relationship with chocolate.
Tell us about this shoot with Serge: where did it take place, were there any interesting details or funny moments on set? How did it all end?
Well, my shoots with Serge were here in Manila. Both times it was in an Airbnb in Makati, so we didn’t really own the place. So we had to be really careful when filming on balconies because people might see me and gawk at me while I’m naked. But honestly, with my voyeuristic tendencies, I didn’t mind if anyone saw me naked. The entire shoot with Serge was one of the best shoots that I’ve had. Even though they were boudoir and risque, the mood was light, fun, playful and very collaborative. I didn’t feel awkward at all, and it does help that Serge is just annoyingly handsome and hot. He would just stare at me, and there would be times where I would get hard and horny while he was shooting me. So we would take a pause for a bit to stop my boner from being too obviously erect.
What concept for an erotic photoshoot would you love to bring to life?
Ohhhhh this is very interesting, well, I would love to do a naked photoshoot in the gym space, while working out, lifting weights and just sweating it out. I also would love to do some nature concepts and shoot it in actual outdoor space like the beach or the forest. Just being out in public and enjoying the nudist lifestyle just seems so interesting, because at the end of the day, erotic photography is still art. There’s something incredibly sexy about being completely comfortable in your own skin and letting the environment become part of the artwork. At the end of the day, erotic photography is still art, so why not celebrate the male body somewhere beautiful?
Do you actually enjoy being completely naked in front of a professional photographer? Have you ever gotten so turned on during a shoot that you wanted to jump the photographer or someone else on set?
Well, at first it felt awkward at first, but honestly I do get horny. Being seen or looked at by the male gaze is such a turn on. Being the nude subject of an erotic photoshoot just puts me in a very submissive mindset. I would get hard right away, especially with Serge behind the camera.
How do you define your sexual orientation?
Well since sexuality is fluid, it could change anytime, but right now, I identify as pansexual. I’ve been with girls, guys and transwomen. I’m open to exploring my sexuality and I don’t mind what’s between someone’s legs for me to be attractive to them. As long as the vibes are right, sexy, and hot, well, I’m rock hard right away.
What’s the craziest sexual experiment you’ve ever tried? And would you do it again?
Ohhh this is juicy! The craziest thing I’ve done during sex was getting pissed on! I know! But the guys drank two liters of water before we fucked so it wasn’t to yellow or something, I explicitly told him to only pee on me below the neck. And the first time I did it, I felt like such a slut, that I asked him to fuck me right away after he peed. Thankfully, no STIs were contracted during that encounter, so I would react and do it again.
Do you have a sexual fantasy you haven’t dared to fulfill yet?
Hmm I would like to be part of a gangbang. As both one the guys fucking the bottom, or the bottom getting railed by multiple tops. Just the thought of submitting someone’s control over a group of guys just makes me hard and horny right away. Seeing slutty bottoms getting passed around and finally, me getting to fuck them would be ultimate fantasy.
What is the most flattering compliment you have ever received in bed?
When it comes to being with someone in bed, I think the most important thing is intimacy. Physicality is already a given because you’re already there enjoying each other’s bodies, but when I’m able to make a connection with the people involved (for threesomes) that’s the sexiest thing that could happen. Someone told me that I made them very comfortable and at ease, and I think that was one of the best compliments. Sex isn’t just about exploring each other’s bodies, but it’s also about fulfilling each other’s desire for emotional closeness and human connection. If someone walks away feeling seen, desired, and comfortable around me, honestly, that’s the compliment I want.
Do you keep track of your body count?
I started having sex at 22, and by 25, I’ve been with three women — which I’m hoping to increase eventually. With men, though, I honestly stopped counting a long time ago. If I had to estimate, I’d say I’m somewhere around 500, but definitely not beyond that. I don’t really see the number as a scorecard; I’m more interested in the experiences and the people behind the number. And yes, I’d love to keep meeting people from different backgrounds and different parts of the world.
What’s the most unusual place you’ve ever had sex?
I’ve always loved having sex in public. I’ve done it in the beach, balconies, public parks, varsity showers, saunas and public restrooms. But I think the hottest place I have had sex with was in the dressing room for gogo boys, where I was fucked by a fellow dancer while waiting for our turn to perform. I was with another dancer while we were waiting for our turn to perform, and afterward we both had to walk onto the stage and act like absolutely nothing had happened. There’s something hilarious about going from that to performing under bright lights like you’re completely innocent. Definitely not your average backstage warm-up.
Which celebrity would you like to have sex with?
Damn, there are way too many! For women, definitely Ana de Armas. I was practically drooling over her in Knives Out. And for the guys? America’s Ass himself — Captain America, Chris Evans. 😂 My bisexual heart genuinely could not handle watching Knives Out because Ana and Chris were both ridiculously attractive. Let’s just say the movie occasionally needed a little pause so I could recover.
What’s more difficult – undressing in front of a camera or sharing intimate details in an interview?
Definitely sharing intimate details. I’m surprisingly comfortable showing my body on camera, but being emotionally vulnerable is a completely different kind of exposure. You can take your clothes off in seconds, but revealing the parts of yourself that you normally keep hidden can take much more courage. Being open about my sexuality has helped me become more comfortable with myself and embrace that side of who I am. And honestly, knowing there are people out there who understand and enjoy hearing these stories makes it feel even more liberating. Often I’ve been told that I can be overly sexual, but sharing these stories with you guys, makes me feel like I have a community who understands me.
What do you consider your main sexual weapon?
Like a sex superhero, I think my main sexual weapon would be my passionate kiss. I genuinely believe a great kiss can tell you almost everything you need to know about the chemistry between two people. I like adapting my style depending on the person — sometimes slow and teasing, sometimes passionate, sometimes a little more intense. For me, it’s all about paying attention to how the other person responds and letting the chemistry build naturally. If the kiss is good, everything else already has a pretty good head start. I can be passionate, torrid, teasing, or rough, whichever they want. I’m also great with using my tongue. I love sucking nipples, eating ass, sucking dick and eating pussy.
What kills desire in bed instantly?
For me, sex is all about connection, so the biggest turn-off is feeling like the other person isn’t actually present. You can be incredibly attractive, but if you’re distracted, rude, or completely checked out, the chemistry disappears immediately. Confidence is also incredibly attractive to me — not arrogance, but being comfortable in your own skin. And physically, bad hygiene is probably the fastest way to kill the mood. Bad breath and BO? Sorry, but even the hottest person in the room can’t survive that.
How often do you need sex?
I’m a very sexual person. I can jerk off 4-6 times a day. But when it comes to sex, once a day would be nice. If I had a partner, three times a week would be adequate. I prefer doing other activities that cultivate intimacy, like going on dates, watching movies, and working out together.
What is the maximum number of sexual partners you’ve had at one time?
Over the course of two days, I ended up having encounters with around 20 guys — nine bottoms and eleven tops. It was during a vacation, so I was basically bouncing between hotels and living a very different kind of weekend itinerary. 😂 The funny part is that despite all of that, I only came three times. By the end of the weekend, I was completely exhausted and had to take an entire week off from sex. Sometimes your body really does send you a calendar invite saying, “Please stop.”
Describe your ideal date scenario.
My ideal date is actually pretty simple. I’d start with something outdoors — going to the beach, hiking, jogging around a park, or just doing something where we can enjoy the sunshine together. Then we’d grab lunch, head back to my condo, relax on the couch, watch a movie, have dinner, and eventually end the night together. Very vanilla, I know. But I think there’s something incredibly sexy about enjoying the ordinary things with someone you genuinely like. If we can laugh together, be comfortable in silence, eat good food, and still want to crawl into bed together at the end of the day, that’s my kind of chemistry.
When do you feel your sexiest?
I feel sexiest when I feel genuinely desired. There’s a huge difference between someone simply finding you attractive and feeling that they really want you. I love both sides of the dynamic — I can be dominant or submissive depending on the person and the chemistry. Give me passionate kisses, sweaty bodies, intense eye contact, and that feeling that neither of us wants to look away, and that would just make me cum right away.
When was the last time you had sex?
As of speaking now, the last time that I had sex was last night, with a couple top. They fucked my brains out and DPed me until I came. I slept at their place, and they fucked my again in the morning. So technically, I woke up exactly where I wanted to be — and probably a little more tired than I expected.
What kind of underwear do you prefer? And what do you wear around the house when you’re alone?
I’m definitely a boxer-brief guy. They give me the right amount of support without feeling restrictive, and I like how they look on the body. But when I’m home alone, comfort wins, so I usually switch to loose boxers and let everything breathe. For hookups, though, I like making more of an effort — sexy underwear, harnesses, and anything that makes me feel a little more confident and mischievous. Sometimes the outfit is half the fun.
What question about sex has no one ever asked you, but you would gladly answer?
I wish someone would ask me what I’ve learned about myself through sex. I think people assume sex is mostly about pleasure, but for me, it’s also taught me a lot about confidence, vulnerability, boundaries, and what kind of connection I actually want with another person. I’ve discovered that I’m much more adventurous than I originally thought, but I’ve also learned that chemistry and trust can make even the simplest experience incredibly memorable. So maybe the real question isn’t “How wild are you?” — it’s “How much of yourself are you willing to discover?”
